Don’t lose your power and magic to infatuation and other forms of relationship obsession, or to the longing for glittering objects. The positive aspect is that this is a propitious time to work on that. Many human beings are extremely vulnerable to romantic obsession, falsely believing that they can only find wholeness through capturing someone else. One of the most powerful enchantments or spells of the Babylon Matrix is the delusion that wholeness (the inner alchemical marriage of masculine and feminine, yin and yang, within) can be imported from the outside. Dominated by this delusion, a person becomes a ring wraith forever seeking “The Precious,” which may be the Hottie, money, celebrity or some other combination of outside objects and events. But wholeness can only be found where it already lies—within. I recommend the book Love 101 which the late Peter McWilliams generously posted free online. What follows are my favorite quotations from the book: The consuming desire of most human beings is deliberately to plant their whole life in the hands of some other person. For this purpose they frequently choose someone who doesn’t even want the beastly thing. I would describe this method of searching for happiness as [...]
Eros is your capacity for oceanic merger with others. Erotic relationships are not necessarily romantic or sexual (though they could be) but they are always soulful. Unerotic relations include pornographic sex on the level of the genitalia and sex as metaphor for power.